It may sound funny but problems in any relationship can be accurately pinpointed by using a fool proof method
recently i was thinking
there are times when we feel what the heck is wrong?? why isnt it working out??
well if you are facing the same scenario think of it this way
it is just another system
1. Verify your inputs ---> check whether your Expectations from your better half are believable/acceptable/permissible
2. Verify whether the system is able ---> things such as length of the relationship,closeness etc etc
3. if there are no problems in 1 and 2 then start troubleshooting
select one variable of the problem at a time
vary it keeping others constant see its effect on output
for eg: if your better half says no to go out with you
1st variable distance ask her to come to a less distant place
2nd time
3rd place
.. u got the point.. i hope
4. sometimes individual variables dont cause the problems
this happens in rare cases
here make logical groups of variables and change them to see effect on output
try it to see it work
or you can just get a life
i tried :|
both :D
-Nilesh J Sakpal
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